What is it that motivates you? Take a minute and think through it. I know plenty of writers and business people who find motivation from their peers and competing companies. They see what they’re doing, are inspired by it, and it helps them produce their own art.
I also know writers, entrepreneurs, teachers, artists, etc. who find that exact thing to be demotivating. I fall into that category. Listening to and observing people in other professions is more motivating and interesting to me that those within my own genre.
That doesn’t mean I don’t network within my peer group, but rather, I don’t follow their work as closely as I would the work of someone doing something completely different. The more I follow my peers’ work, the more I feel unoriginal, and the harder it is to contribute.
Finding art and contribution outside of my sphere is what motivates me the most and inspires me to do and be something different.
Self control is not only denying yourself something that you shouldn’t have. It’s also doing the things you should do to get the results you want. It’s doing them regularly, consistently, and with purpose.
To eat healthy, you must have a plan about what you can do, and how you will do it. When all you focus on is denial, you will fail.
As in all things, understanding the parts will make sense of the whole.
Learn all you can about yourself. Know what makes you stronger. Know what makes you weaker. Self control is doing more than it is denying.
Quitters are misunderstood. It’s not hard to see why when the masses throw quotations such as
“Age wrinkles the body; quitting wrinkles the soul.”
“The word ‘quit’ is only for those who aren’t hungry enough for a successful life.”
around like chimpanzees throwing their feces. Nobody knows you like you. Those who think they do are arrogant and blind. Rely on others for advice and wisdom, but learn to separate their needs from yours.
Experience, trust, and observation are muscles that grow with time. If your current approach is not working, change it, leave it, or find a new one. Food left in a hot pan burns and dries out. Tea and coffee when left in water become bitter and useless.
Do not force yourself to eat the charr or drink the bitter cup when you can create something new and healthy. Do not quit because it’s hard, frustrating, or otherwise taxing. All good things come with struggle.
Quit because you’re confident. Quit to be effective. Quit to be strong, to progress, and to be efficient. Quit to love.
Quit to live; there is no wisdom in finishing if you die in the process.
Every person is either a consumer or a creator.
Consumers spend most of their time digesting what creators make: TV shows, music, books, clothes, movies, jewelry, food, wine, anything. Sometimes what they believe are their own thoughts and opinions belong to the creator. Until questioned, who can say?
Consumers can change a creator’s life.
Creators spend most of their time building. While each hopes for success, it’s never guaranteed. They recognize fear for who she is: powerful, bold, commanding, and beautiful. Instead of sitting on the sidelines watching, the creator stands up and asks her to dance.
Nobody is all consumer or creator, and neither one would exist without the other. But of the two, only one can change the world.